A week ago today I had the wonderful invitation to attend a birth with a couple. Words can not express how proud and happy I am of /for them. This momma worked very hard throughout her pregnancy with an ending goal of an all natural birth using Hypnobabies. She was a rockstar and achieved her goal giving birth to this perfect baby boy. I want to say Congratulations to this beautiful family on their new addition. Thank you for letting me be apart of such a special time of your life. Love your doula Meagan
Mark your calendar for May 2nd 10am-2pm for the Blossoming Boutique for mommies babies and children.
This event has many wonderful vendors. We have everything from baby accessories, baby and toddler clothing, all natural baby kits, stat blocks, photography, cloth diapers, head wraps, jamberry nail wraps, vinyl for the home, jewelry, Norwex, it works, Mary Kay, placenta encapsulator and a special future/mini Q/A from ME your local birth doula. Bring your friends and family. There will be a special gift given at the door and giveaways given every hour from many of our awesome vendors. Please feel free to invite anyone you would like.
When: May 2
Time: 10 am -2 pm
Where: A touch of New York salon
Special feature from Birth Doula @ 11:11:30 am
The Beauty In Breastfeeding Project was designed to give mothers out there a chance to share their experiences in which led them to the choice to breastfeed, their struggles and triumphs. This beautiful project was created with the partnership of Tiny Blessings Doula Services and Bud to Blossom New Family Services and Captured In Time Photography. Our goal is to raise awareness to those out there that throughout each struggle there is a triumph. There are so many mothers who never shared their feelings, problems or love with breastfeeding do to personal, medical or social stereotypes. This project has given them an opportunity to share their story to let others out there know they aren’t alone!
Birth Photography has become one of the largest trends on photography along with the milestone images and capturing that gorgeous belly before baby arrives. Tiny Blessings Doula Services has partnered with Captured in time photography who is offering a wonderful “Labor of Love” Package to Tiny Blessings clients. I would like to share her blog with you today. She is very talented and wonderful to work with and services the SLC an Davis County areas. If you have any questions for her please contact her Here
I am often asked the question of. So if I get/want an epidural is a doula not for me? I support all types of labor natural or medicated. I am there for you and with you along the way providing continuous physical and emotional support. I also would like to mention that I support C-section births. Being a C-section momma myself I understand the importance of that extra support in the OR. If you are planning to have a c-section and would like extra support I would suggest speaking to your provider about having a doula in the room with you and your birth partner for that extra comfort. Here is a great read on hiring a doula even when an epidural is placed.
After I completed my training to become a doula I decided that I wanted to be an apprentice for a few doula’s to gain more experience and knowledge. I reached out on a local forum and was so blessed to have Jennifer reply and say Please join our team. She contacted her doula Maura and she said that she would love to have me shadow her. Maura pulled me right in. I attended a pre-natal with them and instantly felt apart of their birth team. When it came time and Jennifer was in labor I arrived at the birth center with Maura. I had so many emotions running through my body. I was so curious of how it would all happen, nervous, and just full of excitement. We walked in and the feelings only grew stronger.
The second the baby was born my eyes filled up with tears and I looked over to Maura with probably the biggest grin on my face. I couldn’t stop smiling. After Mom and dad were all settled and it was time to leave I got in my car and just felt such a crazy amount of joy and happiness.
I just witnessed a mom go through the most amazing experience and deliver her own baby. HOW COOL IS THAT!
These babies are such blessings. I am so grateful for my amazing support system. My husband family and friends have been so kind to learn more about what I am doing, Sharing my FB page with all of you fine people and help spread the word.
Thank you all so much for the continuous love and support.
I am a mother of two beautiful girls. I couldn’t be more blessed. These two bring me so much not everyday.
Both of my babies were born VIA Cesarian. Lainey was our first and my waters broke on its own.
Contractions started about 45 m later not bad very tolerable but I knew it was time.
Ric and I did what most parents may do on their first baby which is what our OB told us to do.
Waters Broke….. GO to L&D right away right!!!
Well we loaded up and headed to the hospital. When we got there I was immediately hooked up to an IV and checked. I was at a 1! Which is more than I was before cause at all my pre natal checks I was 00000 and only 70% effaced.
Anyway after a lot 4 hours I was at a 3. I didn’t have any idea how to cope through these contractions so I would tense up and just beg Ric to help me. I ended up getting the epidural at a 3 and that’s where I stood for 4 hours. 4 hours later my doctor came in and checked me and I still hadn’t made any progress. I was considered “stalled” not knowing any other options I agreed to a C section. I cried and I didn’t want one but from the Sounds of it that’s what I needed so off to the OR we went and our beautiful Lainey was born 20 min later.
I was bummed I didn’t want a c section I was sad that I didn’t get the birth I had but was grateful for a safe baby.
After I had Lainey I started researching VBAC! I wanted one! I kept telling myself I can do that next time. Created dreams in my head that I would push a baby out.
I joined support groups once I was pregnant again and did a lot of research. Read about it all of the time.
Told my doctor I wanted to VBAC he said okay he’s done them before and he would let me try.
From the second he said try I had a bad feeling.
I was so upset for 4 weeks while I waited for my next visit. Felt like I needed to remind him again of my wishes. So I did and he said like I said I’ll let you try. Hmm right then I felt I needed to change docs but was scared to do so.
So 38 weeks 4 days my water breaks! I had totally pictured things different but I knew this was it! My husband was out of town so I called him and said catch a flight baby is coming. I didn’t want to run to the hospital this time. I didn’t want to go there at all I knew I would be on their clock the second I walked in. Contractions wouldn’t start. I bounced walked I even pumped I couldn’t get them to start. Ric got home about 10. Waters broke at 3 and contractions still hadn’t really started. But he was stressed about is not being at the hospital so off we went. I checked in and they did the same thing. IV and placed me in bed. I told them I wanted to VBAC and needed a VBAC friendly nurse. A lady walked in and said you can do this! I was so grateful she turned the lights off with me and said k had to be hooked up to the monitor ;-(
Compromising with that I stayed out of bed. I enjoyed it. Contractions started and I completely felt like I could do this.
She told me how she used to be a doula etc etc. My experience with her was amazing and it was right then I knew I 1 should have tired a doula like I contemplated on and then 2 that’s what I wanted to do!
I unfortunately ended in a RCS 18 hours after waters broke. It was a 100% different experience I watched the whole thing which was awesome. But I am left again even more educated on birth VBAC risks pros etc and want to do it again!
I will have a doula next time and I hope me being a doula myself will help me personally.
So about 6 months after Lyla was born I made the jump and attended my DONA workshop doula training. I’m so passionate about this line of work. It’s seriously such a beautiful thing. Labor, Birth babies Etta.
I have shadowed one birth and have a client due next week and I’m giddy excited about my next birth. This is a calling of mine and I’m so excited that I get to share it with women all over.
I wanted to thank you all for reading and for sharing my page and helping me get my name out there. I really am feeling so much love and support.
I also want to thank all of you who have e mailed me with questions. I love talking to all of you.
Much love and thanks !
The Doula’s role is to support the birthing woman and her partner. She should provide information for the couple; both before birth to help them prepare and during birth, if needed, to help them make informed decisions.
The doula provides comfort. She makes suggestions to help the mother cope with the discomforts of labor, helps with breathing and relaxation techniques, as well as movement and positioning to aid in relief.
She comforts the laboring mother emotionally – providing positive affirmations and cheering her on when it seems to be getting tough. She also knows when to just be still and quiet and provide a simple, gentle touch. The doula is comfortable working actively with a mother or providing a calming presence for a couple. She allows the partner to participate as much as he is comfortable.